The 5 Temptations Every Campus Leader Must Overcome (Or Become the Joke at the Dinner Table)

May 2, 2023

Most leaders I know (and serve) are struggling and wish for a better reality. 



  • “What happened to community trust?”
  • “How do I get my team back to full strength?”
  • “Since when did the arena of education become such a powder keg?”

The last few years have put that struggle into hyperdrive.


The current leadership landscape has twisted leaders into a bundle of tired and (at times) timid souls scrambling to find the skills and strategies they need to make progress.

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There have been loads written about tactics to reclaim your momentum, but not enough people are honest to talk about the temptations that predictably show up to struggling leaders. 


While ‘moral’ temptations are part of the equation, it’s more nuanced than that.


It’s easy to settle in and become hooked on maintaining the status quo when the going is easy, the numbers are decent, and nobody is breathing down your neck. Often to the point of cheating the practices and disciplines that built your winning trajectory. 


It’s also easy to fall into lazy leadership in seasons of struggle. Regardless of the reason, when you’re in a slump, you’re tempted to cheat in ways you weren’t when things are going well.


Here’s what you’ll likely be tempted to do under sloth or stress that will cause your team to poke fun of you at their dinner table.


1. Moving the goalposts

Moving the goalposts signifies insecurity and is a horrible leadership strategy when uncertainty rules the day. 


Great leaders and teams
Plan, Do, Study, and ACT. 


Not ACTING is a common temptation for leaders and teams responsible for leading systems.


What do you do when data that used to make you smile now shows decline instead of progress?


A natural response is to shut your eyes and stop looking. 


Many leaders who track progress when their organization grows become immediately tempted to stop monitoring it when the growth stops. 


That’s a mistake.


Even worse, some leaders will move the goalposts toward comfort vs. courage. 


  • “Well, I know we used to track campus orientation visits, but that’s not important with everything else happening right now.”
  • “Let’s focus on the whole student experience instead of counting _________” (fill in the blank).


Can we be honest?  You never used to say that. 


Ever. 


And everyone around you knows it.


When you pretend that metrics no longer matter, you’re setting yourself up to become a victim of accidentalism. 


Intentionality and focus are the one-two punches for Higher Performance Systems. 


Compromising your expectation by lazily moving the goalposts is a terrible leadership strategy.



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2. Tamp Down the Vision

Another temptation leaders face when they’re struggling is to tamp down the vision.


Worse than moving the goalposts and changing how you keep score; average leaders are tempted to ignore the aims of the established vision for winning in the year ahead. 


This happens in many ways, but it predominantly surfaces when campus leaders say they’re committed to EXCELLENCE but have no way of measuring what that means from the student experience.


Example: We’re about making dreams reality.

  • Translation: We are currently struggling to provide programming and new partnerships due to our fixed program of study that can’t be changed in our current political climate. 


Example:
Community is our middle name.

  • Translation: We would like to meet more of the local workforce demands, but that “W” word is not received well by the powerful voices of our faculty.


The best way to get off mission is to tamp down your vision by running for popularity over purpose.


3. Blame everyone but yourself

Poor leaders point blame. Higher Performance Leaders take responsibility.


It’s easy to blame others or forces beyond control when things are not going as hoped.


Here’s the whine list of excuses I hear from top leaders when things go south. 


“Our underperformance is because of:”


➜ COVID

➜ Lockdown

➜ The Economy

➜ The Weather

➜ The Campus Down the Street

➜ Your City

➜ Your Culture

➜ The White House

➜ The Supreme Court

➜ The Faculty

➜ The Administration

➜ The Board


Anything but Themselves.


Blaming others is a clear sign of weakness (not strength) in a leader.


Deep down, most leaders know they have not lost ALL control. 


Poor leaders deflect it. Great leaders own it.


4. Imagine yourself in a new system

When you’re struggling as a leader, it’s completely natural to want to escape.


You start to imagine yourself in a new job—
any new job will do—and think about how much easier it might be if you did that rather than what you’re doing now.


The challenge with that thinking is that it leaks. Your people can sniff out when you start looking elsewhere. 


The fact is that every new team and system has issues. Often, the grass looks greener on the other side because THEY have a remarkable marketing department and because YOU haven’t gotten close enough to see the brown blades interspersed with the green blades. Not to mention the root rot found across every human system. 


Also, you bring yourself everywhere you go. This means you bring all your unresolved pain, challenges, unhealthy behaviors, and unresolved issues with you. 


In many ways, leaving a job you’re unhappy with is like leaving a marriage you don’t like. You imagine a new partner will be perfect, which is completely untrue (see above). Unfortunately, you (and your new team) bring your dysfunction into whatever you decide to do next.


Granted, there are times you might be called to leave. To everything…turn…turn…turn…


No one stays in a job forever.


Here’s the Big Idea to remember. You want to quit on a good day, not a bad day. And seasons of struggle are filled with bad days. 


If you’re not thinking clearly (and you’re not when you struggle), you’ll likely make a move you’ll regret later.


And because pain isolates you, you probably haven’t discussed this carefully with your wise people. You may be the only one who thinks leaving is a good idea. And if you’re the only one who thinks it’s a good idea, it’s probably not.


Curious about when it’s a good time to leave? Listen to these seven tell-tale signs: 


  • You’ve lost your passion.
  • There are no new partnerships you could get excited about.
  • You’ve impacted all the changes you can make.
  • Your vision no longer lines up with the system’s vision.
  • You feel indifferent toward your team and community.
  • Your excitement about what’s happening elsewhere is greater than your interest in what’s happening where you are.
  • Your inner circle agrees that it is time for you to fly.


5. Dulling instead of dealing with pain

When stress (and life) knock, you will answer it in a healthy way (self-care) or an unhealthy way (self-indulgence).


Usually, when I ask busy campus leaders how they’re doing, they admit they don’t take great care of themselves. 


When you don’t take great care of yourself, guess what you’ll do in almost every single case?


You end up falling into sensory indulgence —you soothe the pain with the “overs.” 


  • Overeating
  • Over drinking
  • Overworking
  • Over-exercising


The list is endless. Sensory indulgence involves doing anything you can to numb the pain without actually addressing the pain.


When stress and life overwhelm you, you will either respond to it in a healthy way (self-care) or an unhealthy way (self-indulgence).


But here’s the stinger: If you don’t intentionally choose self-care as a leader, you’ll default to self-indulgence. Your team will know if the ladder is true, and so might their dinner table.


The key to getting out of the struggle begins with recognizing that you’re in it.


Understanding your temptations makes it easier to avoid making the struggle worse.


Semester II is when you start planning for Semester I


This is one of the best opportunities to begin planning to accelerate your team’s performance.


For the past decade, I have served campus Lead Teams and know your system's performance is directly connected to your team's health (and smarts).


❓How’s your team’s communication and connection?
❓How’s the quality of your system’s alignment and execution?
❓What’s your plan for optimizing your Lead Team’s capacity?


As THE people leader for your system, I invite you and your leadership team to consider enrolling in the Lead Team Institute {LTI} for the 2023-2024 academic year.

Here is a quick link for more info.


This national initiative is designed to Optimize Higher Team Performance:


✅ Team Communication
✅ Team Connection
✅ Team Alignment
✅ Team Execution
✅ Team Capacity
✅ Reliable Systems


Our fall kickoff dates are filling up. Schedule your preferred fall kick-off date here.


Ready to reclaim your momentum and optimize Higher Team Performance?


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Dr. Joe Hill - Founder, Higher Performance Group


“Because everyone deserves to live in a community served by healthy teams and highly reliable systems.”

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Conviction builds loyalty. Consensus builds mediocrity. I own more Milwaukee tools than any non-contractor has any business owning. A drill. A hammer drill. A circular saw. A packout toolbox system I am genuinely embarrassed to price out—because the boxes that hold the tools have become as satisfying as the tools themselves. I am an organizational researcher and executive team coach who studies leadership teams for a living. I have, without anyone asking me to, become an unpaid marketing department for a power tool brand. I've been trying to understand: Why? Because I didn't drift into Milwaukee. I converted. I had DeWalt tools that worked fine. I replaced them—deliberately, at real cost—because I watched someone on YouTube be genuinely passionate about what Milwaukee was building, and I needed to know what that felt like. Three years later, I'm recommending Milwaukee to people who didn't ask about tools. That's not brand loyalty. That's conviction. And it raises a question I haven't been able to stop thinking about: When is the last time someone became an unpaid evangelist for what you're building? When is the last time a family, a faculty member, a board member recommended your leadership—not because you nudged them, not because a survey asked them—but because they couldn't help it? Our research across 987 leadership teams answers this. The highest-performing institutions aren't the most collegial. They're the most convicted. They know precisely what they're building—and precisely what they refuse to build—and that clarity is more infectious than any strategic plan ever produced. TQ | TEAM INTELLIGENCE is an operating system for Higher Performance teams, but TQ without direction is just a very sophisticated engine with no destination. The multiplication has to be pointed at something—and more importantly, away from something. That's the part most leadership development programs forget entirely. The Diagnosis: The Polite Mediocrity Trap Let's talk about this like adults who've survived enough strategic planning retreats to know the difference between a vision statement and a conviction. Here's what Milwaukee figured out that most educational institutions haven't: being excellent at something requires being honest about what you're against. Milwaukee makes tools for professionals who cannot afford equipment failure under real conditions. That's the for. But the conviction that makes it mean something? They're against the race to the bottom. Against cheap materials dressed up in professional branding. Against the assumption that the person in the field will just deal with it. That against is what makes the for believable. Now walk into most school district or university cabinets and ask: What are we against? Not diplomatically. Not in the language of strategic planning documents. What are you actually done tolerating? You'll hear one of two things. Silence—the professionally calibrated kind, where everyone waits to see who speaks first so they can calibrate their answer. Or a list so abstract it could describe any institution in your state: inequity, mediocrity, the status quo. ("The status quo" is not an oppositional conviction. It's a placeholder dressed up as one. Every institution claims to be against the status quo while carefully maintaining it. If you're against the status quo, name the specific element in your specific institution that you are specifically done accepting. Then watch the room.) The root cause isn't cowardice. It's architecture. Most cabinets have been built—entirely by accident, over years of professional socialization—to reward the performance of alignment and punish genuine conviction. The person who says what they're actually against gets labeled 'difficult.' The person who nods and complains in the parking lot gets labeled 'collegial.' The system selects against exactly what you need. (This is the specific gap THE TEAM INSTITUTE closes—not by making your people better individually, but by building the collective architecture that makes shared conviction possible and safe to name. More on that in a moment.) The Framework: Conviction Architecture Call it the Conviction Architecture. Three dimensions. All required. None of them optional if you want to build something people actually fight to be part of. This isn't complicated. It's just uncomfortable. 1. The Affirmative Conviction — What You're Actually Building Not what you're open to building. Not what you're committed to exploring. What you are actually, specifically, irreversibly building. Here's the test I run with every leader I work with: The Substitution Test. Take your vision statement, your priority framework, your strategic plan—and replace your institution's name with any other institution in your state. Does the document still work? If yes, you don't have a conviction. You have a template. A conviction doesn't survive substitution. "We believe the students in this zip code are capable of competing with any student in this state, and we are done accepting systems that assume otherwise" does not survive substitution. That's a conviction. It names something real, creates real friction, and tells you exactly what the institution is willing to fight for. Milwaukee's affirmative conviction survives substitution. You cannot swap their name into a DeWalt brand statement and have it still be true. The specificity is the point. 2. The Oppositional Conviction — What You're Done Tolerating This is the one most educational leaders refuse to develop publicly. And it is precisely this one that generates loyalty. Think about the leaders in your network who you'd follow anywhere. Every single one of them can tell you—without diplomatic hedging—what they're done tolerating. The assumption that their community's kids are somebody else's problem. The budget process that rewards volume over vision. The professional development ritual that consumes three days per year and changes nothing by the following Monday. They name these things. In public. In front of people who disagree with them. And here's what happens: The people who came for the title or the proximity to power quietly find somewhere else to be. The people who believe in the same things become ferociously loyal—not because they were recruited, but because they were finally in a room where someone said the thing they'd been thinking for years. That's what Milwaukee does with every product decision. They're not trying to be the tool brand for everyone who has ever needed a tool. They're for the professional who needs the equipment to actually work. That specificity makes some people feel excluded. It makes the right people feel seen. The people who feel seen become evangelists. The evangelists bring more people who feel seen. The question for you: What are you done pretending is acceptable?? The answer to that question is the center of your leadership brand. Most leaders never say it out loud. The ones who do build institutions worth following. 3. The Relational Conviction — Who You're Specifically For Cult-level loyalty—the healthy kind—isn't built on quality alone. It's built on the audience's specificity. Milwaukee isn't for every person who has ever held a drill. They're for the professional-grade user who needs equipment that doesn't fail under real conditions. That specificity is what makes their core audience feel genuinely chosen—not accommodated, chosen. Most leaders have been trained to lead for everyone. And while that breadth is appropriate in service delivery, it's corrosive in leadership identity. In cabinet terms: Are you building for the people on your team who are ready to genuinely commit to transformation? Or are you designing initiatives that don't make the least committed person in the room uncomfortable? You cannot do both. The attempt produces exactly the kind of universally-tolerated, nobody-evangelizes-for-it mediocrity that keeps institutions performing at 60% of their actual capacity. The Case Study Let me tell you about a superintendent I'll call Renata. (Not her real name—but Renata, if you're reading this, you've told this story better than I'm about to.) Renata inherited a district led, for eleven years, by a superintendent who was universally well-regarded. Stable board relationships. Decent outcomes. A cabinet that had mastered the art of professional consensus. Nobody was passionate. Nobody was difficult. The district persisted. Renata's first act was not a strategic plan. It was a statement—shared with her cabinet, then her board, then her community—about what her district was done tolerating. She was against the assumption that kids in her zip code couldn't compete academically with those in the wealthier neighboring district. Against professional development that consumed teacher time without producing classroom change. Against administrative processes built for system convenience at the expense of family access. She named these things specifically, publicly, in front of people who were not entirely comfortable hearing them. Two cabinet members who couldn't align with the oppositional conviction left within eighteen months. Renata calls those "the first round of clarity costs." She paid them without drama. Three years later: enrollment grew for the first time in a decade. Not from a marketing campaign. From word of mouth. Families in adjacent districts started talking. Teachers began applying who had heard, through the professional network, that this was a place that knew what it was building. The board member who pushed back hardest in year one told Renata at her third-year evaluation that she was the best hire the board had ever made. Renata didn't build loyalty by being easy to like. She built it by being impossible to mistake. People knew exactly what she was building and exactly what she refused to accept. The people who wanted to build that thing with her became evangelists. Without being asked. If you're reading this thinking, 'I know what I'm against—but my cabinet doesn't share it yet'—that's the specific gap THE TEAM INSTITUTE closes. Shared conviction isn't installed through a memo or a retreat. It's built sequentially, through structured collective development that turns eight individual perspectives into one team that multiplies. Schedule a consultation to explore whether this is the right moment for your cabinet. Whether you work with us or not, here's what you can do Monday morning. The Application: Three Conviction Moves Here's what to do Monday morning (assuming you're not already in crisis mode, in which case, bookmark this and do it Tuesday): Step 1: Write the 'We're Done With' List (20 minutes, alone, before anyone else is in the room) Not a cabinet exercise. Just you. Finish this sentence ten times: "We are done tolerating ________." Don't edit for diplomacy. Write the actual list. The budget process that rewards whoever complains loudest over whoever thinks most clearly. The board dynamic that turns every cabinet meeting into a performance. The strategic initiative that gets launched with full cabinet 'support' and quietly starved of resources by March. Now read the list. The items that make you slightly nervous—the ones where you thought 'I can't actually say that publicly'—circle those. That nervousness is the signal. That's where your real conviction lives. That's the version of your leadership that builds institutions people can't stop talking about. This is the same move Milwaukee made before they built the packout system. They asked: what are we done tolerating in the way professionals organize and transport tools? The answer produced something people 3D-print custom attachments for in their spare time. Your 'done tolerating' list has the same generative potential. Step 2: Run the Substitution Test on Your Strategic Plan (15 minutes) Pull your most recent strategic plan. Replace your institution's name with any other institution in your state. Does the document still work? If yes, you have a placeholder. The conviction isn't in the plan—it's in you. The work is surfacing it, not writing a new plan. Find one sentence in that document that could only be true of your institution, your community, your specific moment. If you can't find one, write one. That sentence is your starting point. Step 3: Say One True Thing in Your Next Cabinet Meeting Just one. In the room. Without the diplomatic hedge at the end. "I want to name something we've been tolerating that I'm no longer willing to tolerate." Then name it specifically. Three things will happen: Someone agrees immediately—that's your first ally. Someone pushes back—that pushback is the most useful data you'll get all month. Or nobody reacts—which means you're in a consent-theater dynamic and you have a different problem to solve first. All three outcomes are more useful than another meeting where everyone nodded and nothing changed by Thursday. Two Objections, Handled: "I can't afford to alienate anyone." You're currently alienating the most committed people on your team by leading as if their conviction has to wait for the least committed person in the room to be ready. That's not caution. That's how you lose your best people to institutions where someone finally said what they were actually building. "My board would never accept this." Renata's board had the same concern. The board member who pushed back hardest is the one who called her the best hire in the district's history. Conviction doesn't lose boards. What loses boards is a leader who can't articulate what they're building clearly enough for the board to get behind it. The Maturity Shift Immature leaders think: "My job is to build consensus around a shared vision." Mature leaders think: "My job is to build a shared conviction strong enough to hold when consensus breaks down." Immature leaders make the vision broad enough that nobody can disagree with it. Mature leaders make the conviction specific enough that only the right people can commit to it. Immature leaders celebrate a full room. Mature leaders ask why everyone in the room describes a different institution when you ask what they're building. Here's the uncomfortable truth: A team without shared conviction doesn't multiply. It averages. Eight individually excellent people, each carrying their own unspoken direction, produce the mean of those directions. The safest course. The least offensive. The least transformative. The one that keeps the district or university exactly where it is while consuming 100% of everyone's capacity to keep it there. The 987 leadership teams in our research who moved from 60% capacity to 90% capacity didn't get there by becoming individually smarter. They got there by developing a shared conviction about what they were building—and what they were done accepting—and multiplying that conviction together. That's what TEAM INTELLIGENCE actually means when it works: not eight people performing alignment, but eight people genuinely committed to the same thing. Sequential investment creates compounding conviction. The Milwaukee packout didn't become a cult object because the first box was remarkable. It became one because every subsequent piece was designed to fit into and enhance what came before. Your cabinet works the same way. Your turn: What's one thing your institution is genuinely against—not officially, not diplomatically, but actually against—that has never been named out loud in a cabinet meeting? Drop it in the comments. Not for performance. Because naming it is the first step to building a team that shares it. Tag someone who you've watched lead with a backbone—someone who says the true thing in the room where it costs something to say it. They deserve to be recognized for it. THE TEAM INSTITUTE Most leadership development programs spend eight hours building individual capacity and return your cabinet to a collective system designed to neutralize exactly what they just developed. Your people come back sharper. They return to a meeting culture that hasn't changed. The individual work doesn't transfer. You know this. You've watched it happen. You've paid for it more than once. THE TEAM INSTITUTE is an 8-month developmental journey that builds what your cabinet is actually missing—not individual skill, but collective architecture. The trust that makes honest conviction safe to name. The shared language that makes it portable across the team. The sequential development—from individual clarity to collective commitment to organizational multiplication—that turns eight excellent individuals into a team that genuinely compounds. Month by month, your cabinet builds what no single training or retreat ever produced: a shared operating system with a shared direction. The kind where someone on your team becomes an unpaid evangelist for what you're building—not because you asked them to, but because they finally found something worth talking about. From our research across 987 leadership teams : 3x performance improvement. 29% higher engagement. 27% better organizational outcomes. Zero burnout increase. One requirement: full leadership team participation. Partial conviction is not conviction. It's a majority position. If you recognize the gap between what you're building and what your team has actually committed to—schedule a 30-minute consultation to explore whether THE TEAM INSTITUTE is the right intervention for your cabinet right now. This is a conversation between people who are done tolerating leadership development that returns brilliant individuals to a broken collective system and calls the investment complete. https://www.higherperformancegroup.com/team-institute Found Value in This? Help other leaders find it: → Repost with the one thing your institution is actually against that's never been named publicly. The leaders who read this need to know they're not alone in carrying that conviction. → @Tag a leader with a backbone. Someone you've watched say the true thing in the room where it cost something to say it. Name them specifically. → Comment with your Substitution Test result: Does your strategic plan survive having your name replaced with any other institution in your state? Yes or No. The comments will tell you something about your peers you won't hear anywhere else. The more leaders who move from performed alignment to shared conviction, the better our educational institutions become. Follow DR. JOE HILL and Higher Performance Group for weekly Team Intelligence insights. Next Issue "Your Cabinet Doesn't Actually Disagree With You (And That's the Problem)" We'll explore why the most dangerous dynamic in educational leadership isn't conflict—it's the professional performance of agreement, while the real conversation happens in the parking lot.  Spoiler: Your last strategic plan didn't die in implementation. It died the moment everyone nodded, and nobody meant it.
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