The 24 Goons that Game to Steal Your Goals in 2023

January 2, 2023

How productive and profitable was your 2022 performance?


Where did you win BIG?


What goals did you crush, and how can you keep that momentum rocking into the new year?


Where did you fall short, and what obstacles tripped you up?


If you are the goalie type of person and ramping up with a pen, paper, and a thermos of coffee preparing your goals for 2023, there are 24 obstacles that I know (because I have experienced them) are working out to kick your fanny this next year.

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Like a “goon” in hockey, whose role is to act aggressively toward the opposition’s star player (you) to TAKE THEM OUT, there are goons who don’t want you to be successful. 


I’ve worked with hundreds of people on shaping their goals, studied goals, and hustled on my own goals for over three decades, and I’ve watched these 24 obstacles trip leaders up over and over again. 


They’ve sucker-punched me before, and I bet they’ve stopped you in your tracks as well. 


Luckily, these goons can be defeated. 


No matter how hard these challenges try to knock you down, I’ve got three ways you can defeat your goon(s) and see your goals accomplished in 2023. 


You may be asking, “Who makes a list of 24 anything?”


I do. 


I’m a goal nerd, and I love helping others build and crush goals to help leaders win in life and at work. 


Goals have helped me start HPG in my late forties. 

Goals helped me write books. 

Goals helped my wife and I find and renovate our forever home. 

Goals will help me build tools and strategies for Optimizing Higher Team Performance.


Pursuing and crushing goals have changed my life from good to great. That’s not a stretch. I can draw a line separating my accidental life and the one where I decided to live intentionally toward my preferred future. 


We are straddling the end of 2022 and the start of the new year. Tis’ the season when many people set goals. 


This blog article will unpack all persistent and predictable goons who don’t want you to succeed in 2023.


This content is part of my 12-workshop series for leadership teams called the
Lead Team Institute.


So why don’t smart and hard-charging leaders accomplish their goals? 


Are you ready?


Read my year-end Very Big Idea,
The 24 Goons that Game to Steal Your Goals in 2023. 


As you read along, see if any of these goons are tripping you up right now. And, at the conclusion of this article, I will share with you the three things you can do to keep the goons from stealing your goals in 2023. 


The 24 Goons that Game to Steal Your Goals in 2023


1. Lack of Clarity: You don’t know what you want to improve. “As soon as I have a clear vision, I will start progressing, but until then, I’m stuck.”

2. Confusion: You made your first step but didn’t know what your next step should be. “I wrote the introduction to the book, but now what?” I signed up for the 5k, but now what?”

3. Prioritization: You have a dozen aspirations, but you can’t pick which one is the most important to you. “It’s not that I don’t have goals, it’s that I have too many areas I want to improve in my life.”

4. Selfish Sense: You don’t have permission to work on yourself. “Every spare minute I have should be spent serving others.”

5. Too Busy: This can be a real or a fake reason. Sometimes you are in a season where there is NO margin. That’s real. It’s fake if you look up your screen time each week and find that you have a good 60 minutes (or more) scrolling the social. Most of you can squeeze more time from your fake excuses for your real goals.

6. Imposter Syndrome: “Who am I to…” Many of you don’t step into the ring to fight for yourselves because you don’t feel worth it.

7. Comparison: Similar to Imposter Syndrome, you compare yourself to others who are often further ahead in the game of whatever you are pursuing. Never compare your beginning to somebody else’s middle. 

8. Procrastination: You have the time but don’t know how to manage it. You live in the land of “later.” You will learn more about how to slay this dragon of procrastination in the Lead Team Institute {LTI}.

9. Fear of Failure: The goal is crazy important, and the thought of failing to arrive here freezes you in your tracks. You feel you don’t have what it takes. Guess what? You don’t. I don’t. We don’t have what it takes…AT FIRST. The fear of failure lies you into thinking you must be an instant success, and when you are not, you quit. 

10. Fear of Success: The opposite of #9 is the fear that if you succeed, you will need to live up to that success as a lifestyle now that the expectations are raised. This is the cousin-fear of Imposter Syndrome. “What if this goes well, and I can’t live up to the expectations for the long haul?” 

11. Unrealistic Goal: This is what I call the “marathon in a week” goal. You haven’t laced up a pair of running shoes in three years and believe you can run a marathon in a week. Crazy big goals can cripple you before you even get started. 

12. Broken Soundtracks: This is when your mindset gets in the way. This comes from the reality that your thoughts become your actions, and your actions turn into results. If your thoughts are not right, your results will also be off. Your mindset is THE greatest inhibitor of your success in life and at work. Where is your mind down-playing your potential?


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13. The Weight of the Work: When you look at the breadth of the goal and get overwhelmed by the work it will take to accomplish ALL of it, you get stopped in your tracks. The key to accomplishing big goals is to “chunk” your goals into smaller daily tactical tasks. 

14.
Perfectionism: If you can’t be perfect the first time, why even try? Perfection is fear in a tuxedo. It can present as a good thing, but in reality, it is an insecurity we all must conquer. 


15. Inconsistent Effort: Start. Stop. Start. Stop. You don’t benefit from the compounding effect of momentum. 

16. Impatience: You (and I) want to see immediate success. The fact is that any goal worth pursuing is GUARANTEED to take longer than you want.

17. Unexpected Challenge: This might be legit. Something unexpected (a health issue, family emergency, or loss of a loved one) crept into your reality when you planned your week, month, or quarter and knocked you off course. 

18. Loss of Excitement: Your motivation tank runs dry. “I’m just not feeling it anymore.”

19. Switch-a-Roo: This can also be legit. For example, I used to run a ton and had running mileage goals that I would regularly track. A few years back, I switched to cycling because of some nagging knee injuries that I was dealing with. That’s different from reading the first chapter of a book that I NEED to read, then buying different one that appears to be more interesting and that I WANT to read. 

20. Criticism: This can be perceived (inhibition or imagined) or a genuine criticism offered by someone you respect. It’s typically the former that becomes massively colorful in clouding your mindset. 

21. Distraction: It’s much easier to watch Netflix than to write a book. Exactly. A whole industry is set on keeping you more accidental (entertained) than intentional (on purpose). 

22. Too Expensive: If you count the cost and determine that completing your MBA will only be possible by going into unnecessary debt, you may want to protract your goal timeline until you can afford it. That’s legit. What’s not is when you believe that self-publishing your first book will cost you thousands of dollars. That’s a fear that is just not true, and you get stopped by the thought that your goal will be too expensive. 

23. Too Late: This fear that you have missed the boat. “I’m washed up. I should have been working on this 20 years ago, but I didn’t, and I feel out of time.”

24. Bad Advice: A family member, friend, or self-help guru gave you a plan bound to fail. You receive some terrible advice that you believed at the time and has you double-guessing everything.

These are largely why smart and hard-charging leaders don’t finish their goals. I could have added a few more but know this; Every one of those reasons (and the ones I missed) boils down to one of three things:

  • An Abundance of Fear
  • A Disconnection from Desire
  • A Lack of Trusted Community


Example: #1 –
Lack of Clarity = A Disconnection from Desire

Example: #2 – Confusion = An Abundance of Fear

Example #24 – Bad Advice = A Lack of Community


Your Turn

Take a minute to step through each of the 24 Goons to Steal Your Goals in 2023 and put the letter F (Fear), D (Desire), or C (Community) next to each on the list. 


As you work on your goals for 2023 and run into thoughts that might interfere with you putting that actual pen to actual paper, ask yourself:

  • Is this a Fear issue?
  • Is this a Desire issue?
  • Is this a Trusted Community issue?


This will help you appropriately counter-punch the issue. 

  • If this is a Fear issue, the hero of COURAGE must show up.
  • If this is a Desire issue, the hero of CLARITY must show up.
  • If this is a Trusted Community issue, the hero of ENGAGEMENT must show up. 


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By HPG Info July 27, 2026
Why the seven forces driving burnout in your cabinet move exactly the way a piano does — and why the room adjusts to the wrongness long before anyone names it. Twenty years ago, I moved my family away from everything they knew. Not across town. Across area codes — away from the school where I was principal, away from grandparents, away from the only bedrooms my three kids had ever slept in, away from every friendship they'd built since kindergarten. I told my wife it was the right move for our family. I still believe that. But telling a nine-year-old “this is the right move for our family” lands about as well as telling your cabinet a reorg is the right move for the institution. Correct. Unpersuasive. Deeply unwelcome. So we did what desperate, loving parents do. Ice cream. A puppy negotiation I'm still not proud of. And one purchase that turned out to matter more than either: a baby grand piano for the new house. That piano is still in my living room. Twenty years, three kids, and a tuner later — a woman who showed up twice a year for over a decade and never once used the word “burnout” — here's what she taught me about running a cabinet, without ever meaning to. A piano doesn't fail all at once. It drifts. One string at a time, one season at a time, so slowly that everyone living inside the house adjusts to the wrongness without ever naming it. Your leadership team is doing the exact same thing right now. And the people closest to it — the ones playing it every single day — are the last people on earth who'll hear it. THE DIAGNOSIS · NOTHING BROKE. IT DRIFTED. Let's talk about drift like adults who've sat through enough strategic planning retreats to know the difference between a crisis and a slow leak. When's the last time a VP in your cabinet pushed back — and meant it? Nobody's cabinet collapses on a Tuesday. What actually happens is smaller and slower: the VP who used to push back in meetings stops pushing back. The initiative that launched with real energy in August is, by February, running on habit and a group chat nobody reads anymore. The meeting that used to run ninety minutes now runs sixty — not because anyone got more efficient, but because half the room quietly decided the extra thirty minutes of honesty wasn't worth it. None of that shows up on a dashboard. It shows up the way a piano goes flat — not as an event, but as an accumulation. By the time someone finally names it (usually a board member, not gently), you're not looking at one broken string. You're looking at an instrument nobody's tuned in two years, and a room full of good people who adjusted to the wrongness because it arrived one cent at a time. (This is the part where I'm supposed to tell you to “communicate more.” You already knew that. The real problem isn't communication. It's that nobody in your cabinet has a name for what's actually going wrong — so everyone quietly assumes it's just them.) Structure is never neutral. Every system is a self-portrait of whoever built it — and most of yours was painted before you ever took the seat. ❞ Which means the villain was never the people in the room. Individual brilliance, individual empathy, individual self-awareness — all present, all functioning. Multiply eight individually excellent people by a system nobody's maintaining, and the output doesn't hold. That's not a people problem. That's structural neglect wearing a people costume. What looks like burnout in your cabinet is usually the rational response of a capable person inside a broken system. ❞ (This is the exact gap Burnout Force was built to name — not another framework asking your cabinet to try harder individually, but a diagnostic for the structural neglect sitting underneath what looks like burnout. Seven forces, seven distinct mechanisms, each requiring its own fix — the same way a tuner never fixes “the piano,” she fixes one string at a time. More on all seven in a moment.) THE PIANO TUNING METHOD — OR WHY SEVEN FORCES, NOT ONE A piano has seven notes before the octave repeats. Do, Re, Mi, Fa, Sol, La, Ti. Seven distinct tones, each capable of going wrong in its own particular way, each requiring its own fix. A tuner doesn't fix “the piano” — she fixes seven specific things, one string tension at a time. Here's the part most people miss: the seventh string never sounds right until the first one's fixed. Burnout Force works the same way. Not one villain. Seven — each with a distinct mechanism, each recognizable once you know what you're listening for. 1 · Fragmentation — Unisons, Out of Sync Most piano notes aren't a single string — they're two or three strings tuned to the exact same pitch, meant to ring as one voice. Drift even slightly apart, and the note doesn't go silent. It goes blurry. Chorused. Technically playing, technically wrong. That's Fragmentation: a cabinet where everyone's still showing up, still contributing, and the collective sound is somehow muddier than any one of them alone. 2 · Exhaustion — String Tension Under Constant Load Piano wire doesn't need to be struck to lose its tension. Sustained load alone, with no release, causes metal fatigue — the string goes flat just from sitting there under pressure. There's an old performance formula worth borrowing here: performance equals potential, minus interference. Not potential plus effort. Your best people are going flat the same way — not from one hard day, but from load with no release, for long enough that flat becomes their normal. 3 · Isolation — Notes That Won't Resonate Together Piano strings produce overtones — secondary frequencies that aren't perfectly clean multiples of the main pitch. Tuners call this inharmonicity: individually well-tuned notes can still clash rather than support each other in a chord. A cabinet can be full of individually excellent leaders who still don't resonate together, because nobody ever tuned them to each other. (Coal miners didn't bring a canary into the mine for company — they brought it as an instrument. When the person who used to drive every meeting suddenly goes quiet in the back row, that's not an attitude problem. That's a reading coming off the instrument.) 4 · Scarcity — Compensation That Crowds the Room When a piano is stretched to compensate for inharmonicity, one note's resonance can crowd out another's — more presence for one string at the expense of the one beside it. Scarcity is the belief that someone else's win is quietly your loss. It's rarely true. It's a tuning problem mistaken for a competition. 5 · Comparison — The Sound of Two Things Measured Against Each Other When two strings are close but not exactly matched, you hear an actual physical pulsing — tuners call it a “beat.” It's the audible result of two things being judged against each other instead of each being allowed to be itself. Comparison in a cabinet works the same way: audible, measurable, and it doesn't resolve on its own. 6 · Noise — Losing the Reference Point Every piano is tuned from one reference octave first — usually the one built around middle C — and everything else is set relative to it. If that reference is never revisited, the whole instrument can be internally consistent with itself and still be wrong, because the one thing everything else depends on was never checked. That's Noise: a cabinet that's stopped returning to its actual reference point and started tuning to whatever's loudest that week. 7 · Drift — The One That Doesn't Announce Itself And then there's the one nobody has to cause. Piano tuners genuinely use this word: drift — the slow, seasonal, nobody-touched-anything loss of pitch that happens just from humidity and temperature changing in the room. No event. No single decision. Just time, and an environment nobody adjusted for. This is the force behind the other six — and the one every leader I know insists could never happen to them, right up until the year it does. WHY FOUR, LIVE — THE AMPLIFICATION ENGINE Here's the part most burnout content skips: not all seven forces are equally random. Four of them are the causal engine — they manufacture the other three. Fragmentation produces Exhaustion (coordinating around broken structure is its own kind of tired). Exhaustion produces Isolation (depleted people stop reaching for each other; reaching itself becomes the thing they can no longer afford). Isolation produces Scarcity (a cabinet that's stopped resonating together starts believing there isn't enough credit, attention, or budget to go around). And Scarcity feeds straight back into Fragmentation — louder, the second time through. Comparison, Noise, and Drift sit downstream of all four. Fix the engine, and the other three get dramatically easier for your own people to spot and name themselves. You cannot fix the seventh string by tightening it harder. You fix the first one, and the seventh gets easier to hear. ❞ I didn't learn any of this from a leadership book. I learned it from the same tuner — never used the word “burnout,” never needed to. She just knew the instrument needed her back, regularly, not once and done. ❝ Your cabinet needs the same thing. Not a single retreat. Not one framework, delivered once, expected to hold. A tuner. A rhythm. Someone who comes back. ❞ THE APPLICATION · MONDAY MORNING Here's what to do Monday morning (assuming your cabinet isn't already visibly out of tune — in which case, start today): Step 1 — Name your loudest string. (15 minutes) Of the seven forces, which one is making the most noise in your cabinet right now? Don't overthink it. Your gut answer is usually the correct diagnosis your data hasn't caught up to yet. Step 2 — Ask your cabinet the “beat” question. (20 minutes, next meeting) Ask directly: “Where do two of us sound like we're being measured against each other instead of just doing our own job well?” That's Comparison, made audible. You'll hear the beat the moment someone answers honestly. Step 3 — Schedule the return visit. (5 minutes) A piano tuned once and never revisited drifts right back. Put a recurring cabinet health conversation on the calendar — quarterly, minimum. The tuner's value was never the single visit. It was the relationship. “We don't have time for this.” You're already spending time managing the symptoms of an out-of-tune cabinet — the redundant meetings, the parking-lot conversations, the initiative that quietly died in month four. That time is already being spent. You're just spending it on maintenance instead of tuning. “My team will think this is soft.” Nobody thinks a piano tuner is soft. She shows up with a very specific diagnosis for a very specific string, and the room sounds different when she leaves. Precision isn't soft. Vague inspiration is soft. This isn't that. THE MATURITY SHIFT Immature leaders think: “We need a retreat to fix morale.” Mature leaders think: “We need a rhythm to maintain the instrument.” Immature leaders wait for the piano to sound obviously wrong before calling anyone. Mature leaders schedule the tuner before the drift is audible to the room. The uncomfortable truth: your cabinet didn't break. It drifted — one string, one season, one quiet accommodation at a time — and nobody wrote it down because nothing dramatic ever happened on any single day. The optimistic reframe: drift is the one force that responds completely to maintenance. You don't need a new piano. You need someone who comes back. Your worth was never conditional on the note holding perfectly. It just needs someone willing to notice when it doesn't — and come back. ❞ Your turn: Which of the seven strings is out of tune in your cabinet right now? Name it in the comments — the word is enough. Tag the person on your team who'd hear it the second you said it out loud. BURNOUT FORCE Burnout Force is the name for what's actually happening — seven specific, researched forces, each with its own mechanism, each solvable once it's named correctly. The keynote fights the first four, live, together, with your cabinet in the room — the causal engine, the ones everything else grows out of. The book carries all seven, in full, with the research behind each one, so your team can finish the tune-up without me there. This isn't another framework to add to the pile you already haven't implemented. It's a diagnostic — built from work across 987 leadership teams in 43 states — for naming precisely which of the seven forces is loudest in your institution right now, and what actually reverses it. 📊 3x performance improvement · 29% higher engagement · 27% better organizational outcomes · zero increase in burnout — because these teams stopped treating exhaustion as a personal failing and started treating it as a structural, solvable problem. If you already know which string is out of tune in your cabinet, the conversation about whether Burnout Force is the right next step for your institution is a short one. Book 30 minutes and let's have it. higherperformancegroup.com/burnout-force FOUND VALUE IN THIS? Help another leader hear their own drift: → Repost with the force that's loudest in your cabinet right now. → Tag a leader who'd recognize this the moment they read it. → Comment with the last time something on your team went quietly out of tune — and nobody said anything for months.  The more leaders who learn to hear the drift before the crisis, the fewer institutions have to relearn this the hard way. Follow DR. JOE HILL and Higher Performance Group for weekly Team Intelligence insights.
By HPG Info July 21, 2026
That's the Problem. Your best cabinet member is running on a parking brake nobody's ever named — and everyone, including them, is calling it dedication. Last week, a superintendent colleauge - Jay Poroda posted about his dog Daisy — a 70-pound labradoodle who skips group play, gets nervous around strangers, and only, only comes alive for a yellow tennis ball. Not red. Not orange. Yellow. I left a comment: "Daisy going only for yellow is the whole argument for fit over effort — she's not lazy about the others, she's just not spending energy on what isn't hers to chase. What's the yellow tennis ball in your work right now?" Jay's answer: "Right now it's a capital improvement project for our district — the thing that outlasts me. Daisy would approve. I just try not to bat the building plans around." Good exchange. But I want to take it somewhere neither of us went. I have a dog too. Ms. Etta. People think she's four or five. She turns eleven next month. Etta doesn't have a yellow-ball problem. Etta has a stopping problem. She'd fetch until her legs gave out — no off-switch, no internal "enough." She's eleven and not seven because somebody with more sense than her keeps saying stop. That's not a dog story. That's your best cabinet member. THE DIAGNOSIS · WHY YOUR BEST PERFORMER IS YOUR BIGGEST EXPOSURE You know the person. Maybe it's you. Takes the 6 AM call, chairs three committees, still remembers every kid's name. (The email lands at 11:47 PM, and you think "dedication" — not "nobody has ever told this person to stop.") You can't treat pain you haven't diagnosed. So here's the diagnosis, precisely: this isn't a talk about stress, and it isn't a talk about resilience. Stress resolves. A hard board meeting is stress. A fire drill is stress. What doesn't resolve — what compounds inside a system built to compound it — is burnout. Not the tired version. Something structural: a system extracting capacity, belief, and mission-fuel from the people most committed to it. Coal miners didn't carry a canary as a pet. They carried it as an instrument. When it went quiet, that was data — the air was already unlivable, long before it reached the miners. Your most committed people are the canaries. Etta is the canary that never goes quiet — she'd keep singing right up until her legs gave out. That's not resilience. That's exactly the problem. The canary that won't stop singing is the one you have to build a system around, because it will never save itself. Here's the part most cabinets skip: you can be stacked with brilliant people and still have nobody positioned to see a colleague redlining before they collapse. Smart gets hired for. Watching each other doesn't. (This is the exact gap the Burnout Force keynote and book close — not another resilience training, not a Wellness Wednesday with cucumber water in the break room, but a structural diagnosis of the forces draining your most committed people before anyone thinks to ask if they're okay. More shortly.) THE FORMULA · WHY EFFORT ISN'T THE VARIABLE Performance psychologist Timothy Gallwey built an equation that should be taped inside every cabinet room in the country: performance equals potential, minus interference. Not potential plus effort. P = p - i Most educational leaders have it backwards — pressing the accelerator harder while a parking brake nobody named stays locked. The average leadership team in our research spends roughly 40% of the workweek on tasks that only exist because something upstream is broken. Sixteen hours. Two full workdays. Every week. Spent servicing damage a broken system did to itself — handed to the one person who cares too much to say no. That's not commitment. That's interference — and it's invisible to almost everyone carrying it, because it doesn't look like failure. It looks like a very busy Tuesday. Gallup finds 62% of employees aren't engaged — not because they stopped caring, but because diminishing capacity is meeting a hundred percent of the workload. Healthcare burnout tops 60%. New teachers leave within five years at rates near 50%. Almost none of that loss is the actual work. Almost all of it is interference nobody audited. Underneath it is a sentence, not a skill gap: I must be indispensable to matter. That's what keeps a leader — or a labradoodle — running long after "enough" should have kicked in. It isn't ambition. It's a substitute for a question nobody's answered yet. THE ARTIFACT · WHAT A BRAKE AUDIT ACTUALLY FINDS Skip the case study. Here's what a real Brake Audit log looks like — names removed, pulled from our research: Month 1 — "Two departments have never held a joint meeting. Every project between them runs through the CAO as translator. Six hours a week, minimum." Month 1 — "She answers email at 6:15 AM. Nobody asked her to. Nobody told her not to." Month 4 — "First missed deadline in two years. Cabinet reads it as a bad week." Month 6 — "Answers in cabinet meetings get shorter. Nobody names it." Month 7 — Brake Audit installed. One task eliminated: a joint department sync replaces the CAO-as-translator. Six hours a week, returned. Month 18 — Zero comparable losses. Same person. Same ambition. Different brake. That's not a story I'm telling you — it's a pattern showing up cabinet after cabinet. The good ones almost never announce they're burning out. They just get quieter, one meeting at a time, until the quiet gets mistaken for calm. The gap between Month 1 and Month 7 wasn't more resilience. It was eleven months and a $41,000 search a different cabinet is running right now — for someone whose name you don't know yet — because nobody named the brake before it locked. WHAT TO DO BEFORE YOUR NEXT CABINET MEETING Skip the retreat. Do this instead: Run the Canary Audit (20 minutes). Go through your cabinet, one person at a time. Who would tell you the truth if they were past capacity — and who would just keep singing until they went quiet? Write both lists. The second list is your exposure. More than one name on it isn't a resilience problem. It's an interference problem with excellent attendance. Run a Brake Audit — out loud (one meeting). Name every task on the table that exists only because something upstream is broken — a form nobody killed, a handoff nobody clarified, a decision made twice at the wrong level. Eliminate one. You're not asking your team to feel more. You're asking them to see the interference they've been mistaking for commitment. Name the sentence when it shows up (ongoing). Next time someone's visibly past capacity, say it out loud instead of admiring the work ethic in silence: "I'm naming this because I care what you're building, not because I doubt your commitment." Usually what's underneath isn't passion — it's I must be indispensable to matter, quietly running the show. Naming it isn't therapy. It's data. Then you adjust the load. "My best people would resent being told to slow down." Less than the district resents them six months into their eventual leave of absence. You're not asking them to want less — you're asking a Brake Audit to catch what their own adrenaline can't. The leaders who resist this hardest usually need it most. That's not a coincidence. That's the interference talking. "We don't have the bandwidth for a new protocol." You have the bandwidth to lose your CAO for eight months and run a national search. That's the actual cost of skipping this. The audit takes one meeting to install. The alternative takes a year to recover from. THE MATURITY SHIFT Immature leaders think: "My best people just need better resilience training." Mature leaders think: "My best people don't have a resilience problem. They have an interference problem I haven't audited." Immature leaders treat exhaustion as loyalty and quietly reward it with more work. Mature leaders treat exhaustion as a signal and build the system that removes interference before it becomes a resignation letter. Immature leaders keep the canary singing longer by praising the song. Mature leaders build the system that lets the canary rest before it goes quiet. Ms. Etta doesn't know she's eleven. She'd fetch until her legs gave out and call it Tuesday. She's still here because somebody with more sense than her keeps the ball in the drawer sometimes. Your best cabinet member doesn't know they're the canary either. That's not a character flaw in them. It's an interference problem you haven't audited — and a sentence running the room in the dark: I must be indispensable to matter. Name them in the comments — the person on your cabinet running on the brake right now. Then tell us why. That's the part that actually helps the next reader see themselves. THE BURNOUT FORCE · WHY THIS ISN'T A RESILIENCE PROBLEM Most leadership development treats exhaustion as an individual wellness problem — a meditation app stipend, a "self-care" breakout at the annual retreat, a years-of-service pin that mostly proves someone stayed. None of that touches the system extracting capacity from your best people. Here's the honest question worth sitting with: where's the gap between what your cabinet is capable of collectively — and what interference is quietly costing you before anyone's named it? The Burnout Force names seven structural forces working against every leadership team right now. Here are the first four: 🔗 Fragmentation — the silo tax that makes good work disappear between offices that never talk to each other. 🔋 Exhaustion — the parking brake we just walked through. 🫥 Isolation — the way good people stop reaching out once asking for help gets expensive enough. 🍽️ Scarcity — the empty table. Stanford's Sendhil Mullainathan found a scarcity mindset alone costs the cognitive equivalent of thirteen IQ points — the tax is neurological, not emotional. None of these are personality problems. They're systems. Systems don't care who's standing in them. Three more wait past the ones we named live — comparison, noise, and drift — each with its own research trail, each just as invisible until it's named. Across our own research — 987 leadership teams, 43 states — 82% report feeling marginalized or undervalued. MIT's Human Dynamics Lab found fragmented teams lose up to 60% of their energy to coordination drag. If that gap doesn't close on its own over the next two years, what does it actually cost you — not in dollars, in the people you can't afford to lose? The keynote walks your cabinet live through the first four forces — and the wound underneath each — so your team names the pattern themselves, before anyone pitches them anything. The book carries all seven, cover to cover. Two ways in this week: an hour with the keynote, or an afternoon with the book. higherperformancegroup.com/burnout-force Found something here worth passing on?  → Repost with the name of the person on your team who needs a brake audit, not a pep talk → Tag the leader you've watched run without one → Comment with what redlining actually cost your institution — the real number, not the polished one Follow DR. JOE HILL and Higher Performance Group for weekly Team Intelligence insights.
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