Higher Performance Insights | The Trichotomy of Control

March 12, 2024
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In navigating the current climate of uncertainty, we often find solace in the wisdom of Epictetus, who asserted that some aspects of life are within our control while others are not. However, this perspective simplifies the complex tapestry of human experience, which is not merely a dichotomy of control but rather a trichotomy.


Consider life not as a bifurcated path but as a delta comprising three distinct channels of control. First, there are the facets of life over which we have complete autonomy.

Second, there are those over which we have absolutely no influence. And third, there are areas where our control is limited. [1]


Contrary to Epictetus' view, we do not have absolute dominion over our "impulses, desires, and aversions." These are instinctive reactions that arise without our consent. We are inherently emotional creatures.


However, we can manage our responses to these instincts with dignity and deliberation. We can consciously choose not to engage in irrational hoarding, not to make hasty financial decisions out of fear, and not to shun the necessary measures of self-isolation and social distancing.


Our duty to ourselves and society is to navigate this third realm of influence adeptly. By doing so, we stand united in the face of adversity. This collective resilience is contingent upon a shared understanding of the trichotomy of control.


Footnotes:
[1] A Guide to The Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy by William B. Irvine.

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